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Trusting God with Our Finances

Weeks ago, my husband and I were reflecting on how God has been faithfully providing for our daily needs and moving His Kingdom forward in Cambodia. As we lead a small, independent church, financial provision is often a challenge. Most of our members are university students who may not yet have the financial capacity to give, but they offer their time, commitment, and talents to support the ministry. Despite the struggles, we rejoice in their willingness to give sacrificially, knowing that God looks at the heart rather than the amount given (2 Corinthians 9:7).

2 Corinthians 9:7
God's Faithful Provision in Our Ministry

Our church might not have regular financial support from outside sources, yet by God’s grace, we manage to pay for the rent of our dormitories and church space. It amazes us how God touches the hearts of believers, both near and far, to provide at just the right time. Philippians 4:19 reassures us, "And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus."

A few months ago, my husband preached a series on "Giving and Financial Freedom." As a young Khmer congregation, many were unfamiliar with the biblical concept of tithing and offerings. It was an opportunity to teach the difference between the two: tithing as a biblical command and offering as an act of generosity beyond the tithe (Malachi 3:10).

My Personal Journey with Tithing

When I was younger and working in the corporate world in the Philippines, I often struggled with tithing. Budgeting was tight, and I prioritized other financial commitments. Instead of trusting God, I leaned on credit cards and borrowing money. Tithing was never my priority, and I found myself compromising my walk with God.

Small Group 2004
Small Group sessions with Ate Charm (FBWC,2004???)
Like many believers, I thought dropping money into the offering bag was enough, but my heart was not truly surrendered to the practice. I was convicted during Bible studies, realizing that tithing is a sign of spiritual maturity and trust in God (Proverbs 3:9-10). Ate Charm, my discipler once told me, "Tithing is not about how much you give, but about acknowledging that everything belongs to God."

Learning to Prioritize God First

Recently, I came across a powerful teaching on tithing. The preacher said:

  • Tithing supports God’s house.
  • It demonstrates trust in God.
  • It creates room for God’s blessings.
  • It reminds me that God is the ultimate provider.
  • It aligns finances with God’s purposes.
  • It transforms money into a seed of faith.
  • It prevents selfishness and self-reliance.
  • It is not an act of generosity but of obedience to God.

This teaching deeply resonated with me, reinforcing that tithing is not merely a financial transaction but a spiritual discipline that strengthens our faith.

Living Out Tithing in Our Family

Today, my husband and I strive to set an example of consistent tithing for our son, David, and my sister-in-law Kunthy, who recently accepted Christ. Teaching her about faith and finances has been a journey, as tithing is often viewed as unnecessary or impractical in Khmer culture.

Through God’s grace, my sister-in-law has grown in faith. She started a small food business, selling spaghetti and pumpkin juice. Though her profits are modest, she faithfully tithes, understanding that God honors obedience (Luke 6:38). She also prioritizes corporate worship, closing her shop on Sundays to honor God.

Luke 6:38
Her testimony is inspiring—despite financial struggles, she experiences God’s provision and contentment. She and her son have a safe home in the city, her son is thriving in school, and she has found a church community where she belongs. She even volunteers at PPC, joyfully cooking for our monthly fellowship meals.
Khmer Chicken Curry
Kunthy joyfully cooks for us PPC monthly lunch fellowships!

Trusting God in Every Season

God does not need our money, but He desires our trust and obedience. Tithing is a way of acknowledging His sovereignty over our finances and demonstrating our faith. As 2 Corinthians 8:12 says, "For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what one does not have."

2 Corinthians 8:12
When we give, we shift our focus from our limitations to God’s limitless provision. Through giving, we participate in God’s work, grow in spiritual maturity, and experience His faithfulness firsthand.

If you struggle with tithing, start with a heart-check. Do you trust God as your provider? Do you believe He can sustain you beyond your financial concerns? Remember Jesus’ words in Matthew 6:33, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."

May we all grow in faith as we honor God with our giving, knowing that He is our ultimate source and provider. Let us give joyfully, trusting that God will use our offerings for His glory and our good.

Serving God in Cambodia!

The Hourngs

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