How do we wait upon the Lord?

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I have often been in seasons of waiting. Whether it's waiting for a specific answer to a prayer, waiting for a new opportunity, or simply waiting for God's timing, waiting can be a challenging experience. Today, I want to share my reflection based on Psalm 27:14. I am sincerely praying to address it to all the women in my community – single women, mothers, wives, young professionals, and sisters in faith. I am still learning the importance of waiting well and discovering effective ways to navigate this season by God's grace.
Years back, waiting upon the Lord brought tremendous transformation in me personally. I acknowledge God's shaping me from the inside out before even coming to Cambodia as a single missionary. Through the years somehow, I knew this chiseling was necessary for my character development.  With all honesty, I believe I still need to grow and apply these aspects of waiting as I fulfill God's calling in my life in this country.
Five Important Aspects of Waiting
  1. Trust: When we wait on the Lord, we are expressing our trust in His sovereignty and goodness. We believe that His timing is perfect, even when it doesn't align with our expectations.
  2. Patience: Waiting requires patience. It's an opportunity to develop a patient heart, one that is able to endure trials and setbacks without losing hope.
  3. Submission: Waiting involves submitting our will to God's will. We acknowledge that He knows what is best for us, even when we don't understand His plans.
  4. Hope: Waiting is not about giving up hope. It's about holding onto the promise of God's faithfulness and believing that He will come through in His time.
  5. Growth: Waiting can be a time of spiritual growth. It allows us to deepen our relationship with God and discover new aspects of His character.     
Five Effective Ways to Wait Well
  1. Prayer: Consistent prayer is essential during seasons of waiting. Pour out your heart to God, expressing your desires, fears, and hopes. Trust that He hears you and will answer in His perfect time.
  2. Scripture: Immerse yourself in God's Word. Seek out verses that offer comfort, encouragement, and hope. Let the Bible guide your thoughts and emotions during this challenging time.
  3. Community: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family. Share your experiences with others who understand what you're going through. Together, you can encourage and uplift each other.
  4. Serve Others: Focus on serving others instead of dwelling on your own circumstances. Helping others can take your mind off your worries and bring joy to your heart.
  5. Rest: Take time to rest and recharge. Get enough sleep, eat healthy foods, and engage in activities that bring you peace and relaxation. A well-rested body and mind can better handle the challenges of waiting.
Waiting Well for Single Women
Single women often find themselves in seasons of waiting, whether it's waiting for a Godly partner, waiting for a new job, or waiting for a specific answer to a prayer.
  • Praying for a Partner: If you're waiting for a husband, continue to pray and trust that God has the perfect man for you. Spend time getting to know yourself better and developing your relationship with God.
  • Waiting for a New Job: If you're waiting for a new job, use this time to develop your skills and network with others in your field. Trust that God will provide the right opportunity at the right time.
Prayer for Single Women:
Dear Lord, I pray for all the single women in our community. May they trust in Your timing and find peace and hope in waiting for Your perfect plans. Guide them in their search for a Godly partner and provide them with the strength and courage to pursue their dreams.
Waiting Well for Mothers
Mothers are often juggling many responsibilities, and waiting can add an extra layer of stress. Whether it's waiting for your child to overcome a challenge or waiting for a new opportunity in your career, remember that God is with you.
  • Praying for Your Child: If you're waiting for your child to overcome a challenge, pray for wisdom and guidance. Trust that God is working in your child's life, even when you can't see it.
  • Waiting for a New Opportunity: If you're waiting for a new opportunity in your career, use this time to develop your skills and network with other mothers. Trust that God will open the right doors at the right time.
Prayer for Mothers:
Dear Lord, I pray for all the mothers in our community. May they find strength and encouragement in You during this season of waiting. Grant them wisdom and guidance as they raise their children and pursue their dreams.
Waiting Well for Wives
Wives often find themselves waiting for their husbands to come home from work, waiting for their children to grow up, or waiting for a specific answer to a prayer.
  • Praying for Your Husband: If you're waiting for your husband to come home from work, pray for his safety and well-being. Trust that God is watching over him and will bring him home safely.
  • Waiting for Your Children to Grow Up: If you're waiting for your children to grow up, pray for wisdom and patience. Trust that God is guiding your children and will equip them for the future.
Prayer for Wives:
Dear Lord, I pray for all the wives in our community. May they find joy and fulfillment in their role as wives and mothers. Grant them patience and understanding as they wait for their husbands and children to grow.
Waiting Well for Young Professionals
Young professionals are often in a season of waiting, whether it's waiting for a promotion, waiting for a new job, or waiting for a specific answer to a prayer.
  • Praying for a Promotion: If you're waiting for a promotion, continue to work hard and develop your skills. Trust that God will reward your efforts in His time.
  • Waiting for a New Job: If you're waiting for a new job, use this time to network with others in your field and attend industry events. Trust that God will open the right doors at the right time.
Prayer for Young Professionals:
Dear Lord, I pray for all the young professionals in our community. May they find purpose and fulfillment in their careers. Grant them wisdom and guidance as they navigate this season of waiting.
Waiting Well for Sisters of Faith
As sisters of faith, we are all called to wait on the Lord. Whether we are waiting for a specific answer to a prayer, waiting for a new opportunity, or simply waiting for God's timing, we can trust that He is with us.
  • Praying for Others: Use this season of waiting to pray for others in your community. Intercede for their needs and trust that God will answer your prayers.
  • Serving Others: Focus on serving others instead of dwelling on your own circumstances. Helping others can take your mind off your worries and bring joy to your heart. I hope you can read my post here 👉 Finding JOY in serving!
Prayer for Sisters of Faith:
Dear Lord, I pray for all my sisters in faith. May we find strength and encouragement in You during this season of waiting. Grant us a heart of compassion and a desire to serve others.
Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Many women throughout history have faced seasons of waiting and have emerged stronger and more resilient because of it.
Let us embrace this season of waiting with trust, patience, and hope. May we emerge from it stronger, wiser, and more deeply connected to our Heavenly Father.
Serving in Cambodia,
Tess 😍💓
Location: Phnom Penh, Cambodia

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