10-Day Prayer Challenge for our Marriage (Wife edition)

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Covering Our Husbands with Grace and Humility 

As wives, we all want our marriages to thrive—to be filled with love, understanding, and connection. But let’s be honest, marriage isn’t always easy. Between the busyness of life, the weight of responsibilities, and the occasional disagreements, it’s easy to feel disconnected or even frustrated. Whether you’re a young wife navigating the early years of marriage or a seasoned wife who’s been through it all, one thing remains true: prayer is the foundation of a strong, Christ-centered marriage.  

Today, I want to invite you to join me in focusing on Philippians 2:3-8, where Paul reminds us to have the same mindset as Christ—one of humility, selflessness, and love. These verses aren’t just a call to action; they’re a blueprint for how we can love and support our husbands in a way that honors God and strengthens our marriages.  

Humility in Marriage
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Why Humility Matters in Marriage?

Humility isn’t about thinking less of yourself—it’s about thinking of yourself less. It’s about valuing your spouse above yourself, just as Christ valued us enough to lay down His life. In marriage, humility looks like:  

  • Choosing to listen instead of insisting on being heard.  
  • Serving your spouse even when you’re tired or feel unappreciated.  
  • Letting go of the need to be right and instead seeking unity.  

When we approach our marriages with humility, we create space for grace, understanding, and deeper connection. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.  

The Role of Prayer in Marriage

Prayer is one of the most powerful tools we have as wives. It’s not just about asking God to change our husbands (though that’s important too!); it’s about asking God to change *us*. 

When we pray for our husbands, we’re inviting God into our marriages to do what only He can do—soften hearts, heal wounds, and bring unity.  

As a pastor’s wife, I’ve seen firsthand how prayer can transform a marriage. There have been times when my husband and I faced challenges—miscommunication, stress, or simply feeling disconnected because of our busy schedules. In those moments, prayer has been our lifeline. It’s reminded me to approach my husband with grace, to see him through God’s eyes, and to trust God to work in our relationship.   

Philippians 2:3-8

5 Things to Reflect On as a Praying Wife

1. Am I Valuing My Husband Above Myself?

Philippians 2:3 calls us to “value others above ourselves.” In marriage, this means prioritizing your husband’s needs and desires, even when it’s inconvenient. Ask yourself: How can I show my husband that I value him today?  

2. Am I Serving with a Joyful Heart?

Christ took on the role of a servant, even though He was Lord of all (Philippians 2:7). Serving our husbands isn’t about being a doormat—it’s about loving them in practical, tangible ways. What’s one way you can serve your husband this week? 

3. Am I Letting Go of Pride?

Pride has a way of creeping into our marriages—whether it’s the need to be right, the desire for control, or the fear of vulnerability. Humility requires us to lay down our pride and trust God with our relationships. What area of your marriage do you need to surrender to God today?  

4. Am I Praying for My Husband Regularly?

Prayer isn’t just a last resort; it’s a first response. When we pray for our husbands, we’re covering them in God’s protection, wisdom, and love. How can you make prayer a consistent part of your marriage?  

5. Am I Increasing Appreciation and Decreasing Expectations?

It’s easy to focus on what our husbands aren’t doing, but what if we shifted our focus to what they *are* doing? Gratitude has a way of transforming our perspective and our relationships. What’s one thing you appreciate about your husband that you can thank him for today?  

A Call to Action: Take the Prayer Challenge 

If you’re ready to deepen your prayer life and cover your husband in prayer, I’ve created a 👉**10-Day Prayer Challenge** just for you. This challenge is designed to help you reflect on humility, pray intentionally for your husband, and grow in your marriage. Each day includes a reflection, thought-provoking questions, and a prayer guide to help you stay focused.  

Whether you’re a young wife just starting out or a seasoned wife looking to reignite the spark in your marriage, this challenge is for you. It’s not just for pastor’s wives or women in ministry—it’s for *all* wives who want to see God move in their marriages.  

**Click Here to Get Your Free Prayer Journal!**  

I’m so excited to share this resource with you! Click the link below to download your free **10-Day Prayer Challenge Journal**. 

Let’s commit to covering our husbands in prayer, increasing our appreciation, and decreasing our expectations. Together, we can build marriages that reflect the love and humility of Christ.  

👉 [**Download Your Free Prayer Journal Here**]  

Final Encouragement

Marriage is a journey, and it’s one that’s meant to be walked with God at the center. When we approach our marriages with humility, grace, and prayer, we create space for God to work in ways we never imagined. So let’s commit to being wives who pray, who serve, and who love like Christ.  

Your marriage is worth it. Your husband is worth it. And most importantly, God is worthy of the glory that comes from a marriage rooted in Him.  

Let’s take this step of faith together. Click the link, download the journal, and let’s start praying!  


**My husband and I actually memorized Philippians 2:3-8. It's always a reminder to apply humility in our marriage journey. Read my previous blog entry here 👈


If you prefer a PDF copy, please type "I want a copy" in the comment section below, 👇, and I will send you a printable PDF copy 😅😍 (It's FREE don't worry)


With love and encouragement,  

Tess 💓😍😅

Location: Phnom Penh, Cambodia

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